Here are some resources I found from various clubs and websites    

College Guide - Lexington FC

College Handbook - Rage Soccer Club

Email Do's and Don'ts - Rage Soccer Club

Question to ask college coaches

What it takes to be a Division 1 soccer player - article by Gerald Guerrieri - Texas A&M

2013-14 Guide for the college bound student athlete

Link to Corder Sports Consulting - A very good resource on recruiting, eligibility, financial aid, and college selection